Comments on: Marriage-Hunting Bra Heats Up Courtship in Japan http://www.weirdasianews.com/2009/11/15/japanese-courtship-heats-marriagehunting-bra/ Sun, 05 Feb 2012 14:31:12 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Banana http://www.weirdasianews.com/2009/11/15/japanese-courtship-heats-marriagehunting-bra/#comment-40574 Banana Tue, 10 May 2011 05:42:28 +0000 http://www.weirdasianews.com/?p=10834#comment-40574 Yes, the gay men like you do win in today's world; "stop looking for prince charming, he lives in San Francisco with his boyfriend." Yes, the gay men like you do win in today's world; "stop looking for prince charming, he lives in San Francisco with his boyfriend."

]]> By: Banana http://www.weirdasianews.com/2009/11/15/japanese-courtship-heats-marriagehunting-bra/#comment-40573 Banana Tue, 10 May 2011 05:39:49 +0000 http://www.weirdasianews.com/?p=10834#comment-40573 I'm not 100% sure, but the trait can probably go the other way too. Humans (and all other animals in general) are designed to go after mates who are most genetically different from them, which usually comes out as pheremones (smell) in the air. This is why IN GENERAL, people do not want to engage in reproductive activities with their parents/etc. the pheremones are the same = not compatible. Plus, there's been some scientific work about (example) teenaged hormones changing so that teenaged boys do not like their mothers being around, because of a hormonal change in the boy, specifically evolved in humans to prevent children/parent matings. As such, it's not just the 'asian women want non-asian men "because they are sexist"' although that may be the case (it is the stereotype unfortunately, and while there are of course exceptions, it's the loud-mouthed scumbags who get our attention, and so re-inforce the stereotype), it's a chemical thing for the attraction, regardless of the various other possible incentives. I'm not 100% sure, but the trait can probably go the other way too. Humans (and all other animals in general) are designed to go after mates who are most genetically different from them, which usually comes out as pheremones (smell) in the air. This is why IN GENERAL, people do not want to engage in reproductive activities with their parents/etc. the pheremones are the same = not compatible. Plus, there's been some scientific work about (example) teenaged hormones changing so that teenaged boys do not like their mothers being around, because of a hormonal change in the boy, specifically evolved in humans to prevent children/parent matings.
As such, it's not just the 'asian women want non-asian men "because they are sexist"' although that may be the case (it is the stereotype unfortunately, and while there are of course exceptions, it's the loud-mouthed scumbags who get our attention, and so re-inforce the stereotype), it's a chemical thing for the attraction, regardless of the various other possible incentives.

]]> By: Chris http://www.weirdasianews.com/2009/11/15/japanese-courtship-heats-marriagehunting-bra/#comment-34447 Chris Wed, 01 Sep 2010 14:12:58 +0000 http://www.weirdasianews.com/?p=10834#comment-34447 Let's assume three VERY stupid things here: 1) 60% of Japanese men are gay 2) They are "turned" gay because women are too "aggressive" 3) You know ANYTHING about the general consensus of cross-cultural sexual behavior. At least the gay dudes like me win out. ;D Let's assume three VERY stupid things here:

1) 60% of Japanese men are gay
2) They are "turned" gay because women are too "aggressive"
3) You know ANYTHING about the general consensus of cross-cultural sexual behavior.

At least the gay dudes like me win out. ;D

]]> By: SOSB http://www.weirdasianews.com/2009/11/15/japanese-courtship-heats-marriagehunting-bra/#comment-30098 SOSB Thu, 04 Mar 2010 20:50:24 +0000 http://www.weirdasianews.com/?p=10834#comment-30098 They are just saying that every year the number of Japanese women who hook up and eventually marry non-Japanese men and non-Asian men is growing and this new trend is here to stay!!! So as a result many Japanese and other Asian men are angry and jealous of all these Oriental women marrying western men, so there trying to come up with ways to prevent it and force these women to hook up and marry only within their own race or nationality, but thats not going to work out. Asian female and Caucasian male is the hottest and fastest growing trend in the world of interracial/inter-cultural dating and marriage, and Jeff is an example since his wife is Japanese and he is Caucasian--this trend is here to stay. They are just saying that every year the number of Japanese women who hook up and eventually marry non-Japanese men and non-Asian men is growing and this new trend is here to stay!!! So as a result many Japanese and other Asian men are angry and jealous of all these Oriental women marrying western men, so there trying to come up with ways to prevent it and force these women to hook up and marry only within their own race or nationality, but thats not going to work out. Asian female and Caucasian male is the hottest and fastest growing trend in the world of interracial/inter-cultural dating and marriage, and Jeff is an example since his wife is Japanese and he is Caucasian–this trend is here to stay.

]]> By: JAS http://www.weirdasianews.com/2009/11/15/japanese-courtship-heats-marriagehunting-bra/#comment-27413 JAS Mon, 07 Dec 2009 21:25:23 +0000 http://www.weirdasianews.com/?p=10834#comment-27413 Good I am glad that you are happily married to a Japanese man...mixed marriages are great!!! and much more interesting than same race marriages because you learn about cultures at the same time that you learn and enjoy your special someone. I have lots of male and female Japanese friends and whenever they are around westerns they are as polite as possible BUT when there not around westerns the men are very bossy to the women and if the women dose not listen to orders then things will get ugly. However more and more Japanese men are ignoring Japanese women because they are more aggressive than in the past. BOTTOM LINE: Japanese men do not want Japanese women working in the professional world and they refuse to accept this changing gender role in their society. It is said that more than 60 percent of Japanese men today are gay/homosexuals and it largely ties to the increased aggressiveness of Japanese women wanting respect and equality from the men, which are two things the Japanese men refuse to give to the Japanese women because it means giving up power to the women. OMG it the end of the world as we know it to the male dominance over females in Japan. I hope you and your spouse stay together forever and live a very happy life!!!!! Good I am glad that you are happily married to a Japanese man…mixed marriages are great!!! and much more interesting than same race marriages because you learn about cultures at the same time that you learn and enjoy your special someone. I have lots of male and female Japanese friends and whenever they are around westerns they are as polite as possible BUT when there not around westerns the men are very bossy to the women and if the women dose not listen to orders then things will get ugly. However more and more Japanese men are ignoring Japanese women because they are more aggressive than in the past.
BOTTOM LINE: Japanese men do not want Japanese women working in the professional world and they refuse to accept this changing gender role in their society.
It is said that more than 60 percent of Japanese men today are gay/homosexuals and it largely ties to the increased aggressiveness of Japanese women wanting respect and equality from the men, which are two things the Japanese men refuse to give to the Japanese women because it means giving up power to the women. OMG it the end of the world as we know it to the male dominance over females in Japan.
I hope you and your spouse stay together forever and live a very happy life!!!!!

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