Chinese Cheap when it comes to Buying Love
I am sure you have seen the movie “Indecent Proposal”, where a million dollars was offered in exchange for one night of romance with a married woman.
A wealthy Chinese has actually attempted something similar but is paying a whole lot less and asking for longer than a night.
A woman named Lin Fang has been struggling a month to decide whether to accept 200,000 yuan from another woman who is having an affair with Lin’s husband.
Ten years ago, Lin’s husband, well-built and handsome, was fired by his employer because his love affairs. Lin forgave him and quit her job and opened a small fast-food shop with her husband. After a few years, they finally made some money running the business.
The man betrayed Lin again when he was attracted to a wealthy woman who could afford to buy a five-star hotel. He claimed she truly loves him.
Because she had a child, Lin decided to put up with the situation. But things didn’t stop there. On May 3, the rich woman came to the restaurant and offered a check of 200,000 yuan asking Lin to divorce her husband.
This put Lin in a dilemma - if she accepts the offer, she would feel humiliated spending the money; if not, her husband will not come back home either. All of her friends advised her to take the money and get divorced, but she is still indecisive on the price of selling a husband.
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Get rid of him and go on a big shopping spree, he’s not worth your effort!
Sugar mama!
Well I think that she is better off without him as she cannot rely on him it seems. Mental anguish is not what life is about. Life has enough trials and tribulations on its own without adding some from another persons disregard or lack of respect. As for the money I think if I was her I would pose the question to the husband as to how much he thinks he is worth? When he asks why then say that to this other woman he is worth 200 000 yuan. Let him know he is being bought and sold like a sea food dish at a restaurant!
Right now he thinks he is on top of the world with being married and having a lover, but to the woman that is his lover he is only a toy that she does not have totally so she wants what she seemingly cannot have all to herself. The man becomes a quest. She is a schrewd buisness woman as she is offering low to see how cheap she can get her toy for, kinda like haggling in a market for something. After she is board with him she will toss him out like yesterdays fashion ideas, that is when he will try to come back to his wife and child. And now we have an important point, the child! does the child deserve to be subjected to this circus soap opera unfolding? No. The mother has to think for herself and well being as well as the childs well being.
If Lin is reading this, think of this dear, with time looks fade, bodies wrinkle and we become weak in health, but our hearts and minds ( personality core ) stay the same, his core personality will stay the same so when he is old and wrinkley, saggy he will be the same on the inside as I view him as that now! Do you want that? or would you prefer to grow old with someone that is kind and gentle and keeps you in his heart? We all get old and ugly on the outside but the trick is finding someone that is NOT ugly on the inside! For when we get old all we have left is what we have inside to offer. This mans actions has shown him to be shallow, egocentric …. and only worth 200 000 yuan! LOL I think the choice should be discussed between the 2 of you and exclude the woman placing the bids on him. Lin, tell him what he is worth anbd make him deal with her about the price issue, If he wants to go then let him as I agree you are probably better off without him and yes he eventually will become trash so do not worry about that. It will weigh heavy over time that he is worth only 200 000 yuan. True love cannot be bought neither can respect, it has to be earned by actions and attitudes not money.Children learn from examples if he is around what examples is he showing your child Lin?
Food for thought, go with your gut instinct dear, everyone should! It is rarely wrong!
Paul K
Canada
Still scratching my head some days with people!
‘Always look on the bright side of life” Jimnie Cricket. Tell the women that no, no money, but she will move into the home of the rich lady that has her husband, stay for free, and find herself a teenaged boy friend to move in also. Teenaged boys can do sex more times a day then older men, she will have a good live and lots of sex. Why don’t people look at the best things, use their minds not their emotions.